Not Feelin' The Love......
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| Mon, 01-14-2008 - 11:18pm |
Okay.....
I have been here a little while and my story does not seem to be changing....
My now living at the 'house of fun' husband has decided that our counseling is not working and that we need to work things out ourselves. I told him this was NOT an option so he is seeking out our next great help (aka new male sympathetic counselor). Meanwhile, I am not feeling closer, I am not feeling better, I am not sure what the heck I am doing, and I am not sure which way is up! He thinks that I should be loving him more because he does not "yell" at me anymore. How can I convince him otherwise? I am not sure that I will ever love him again.
It is really hard to explain to the person you feel has abused you that you do not and may not ever feel love for them again. He wants me to 'hang in there' for the kids, when he hardly spends time with them and doesn't want to spend much time with them without me there.
UGH!!!!!!!!!!!!

Memphis,
I suspect your husband has decided marriage counseling isn't working because he's being asked to take responsibility for his share of the issues, make his share of changes, and doesn't really want to think he's part of the problem. You could probably see
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