not sure about divorce

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-04-2008
not sure about divorce
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Fri, 04-04-2008 - 1:24am

I've been married for 20 years and have 2 teenagers. For the last 5 years or so I have been unhappy. My husband is a good guy, but he is not the guy I want him to be. First of all, he no longer wants to have sex. He has never been good at or

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Registered: 10-25-2006
Fri, 04-04-2008 - 8:28am

Sammie,


First, I recommend you find yourself a good therapist and start seeing them. There are issues, needs, and unspoken expectations you need to sort out one-on-one with someone who can help you see your responsibility in

CL-Wisdomtooth2020

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Registered: 11-25-2003
Fri, 04-04-2008 - 8:54am

Hi there sammie,


Since you are not sure about divorce, I'd suggest that you do nothing hurried or rash for a while.