Not sure what to do

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Registered: 01-03-2008
Not sure what to do
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Thu, 01-03-2008 - 6:16pm

My husband and I have been married for almost 18 years.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 01-03-2008 - 7:59pm

My STBX was the same way regarding the anger.

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Registered: 01-03-2008
Thu, 01-03-2008 - 8:09pm
Thanks for the advice.
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Registered: 01-03-2008
Fri, 01-04-2008 - 5:01pm
Have you filed for divorce?
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Fri, 01-04-2008 - 10:51pm

No, haven't filed yet.

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Registered: 01-20-2008
Sun, 01-20-2008 - 12:45pm



Hello I'm new on this site and I have only been married for 7 months and I am 28, but I have been through some really bad relationships. I have some of the same problems with my husband and what I wonder is why when we know the answer it is still so hard for us to follow it. My husband has been on the internet emailing other women and he lies to me about it. Ok I have only found out about one this month so far and he says its harmless because she is from a different a state and that he is not cheating on me, but I still think it is wrong. I don't want to end up in your situation, and I'm not really giving you any advice, I really need your advice. Please, I don't want to end up with years of pain like you have gone through.