Official Resignation

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-06-2005
Official Resignation
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Fri, 05-06-2005 - 9:23am

Hi everyone,


I just sent in my official resignation from being CL of these boards.


Between OW, her friends and my mother reading and posting responses to my posts, I don't think it is fair to you guys to have you subjected to the negativity I face everyday.


Is it my fault that OW found this site? Yes. Completely. In trying to offer an outside opinion on what the OW can be like, I screwed my own privacy.


I'm not sure how my mother found this site, she is also a victim of divorce and needs her own venting place, maybe that's how.


The bottom line is I don't want to post things that get questioned by OW and my mother. My mom doesn't know the things that happen as I don't talk to her, but yet she feels the need to respond and voice her opinion on things.


OW never saw what she has done wrong and by her posting what she did, apologizing for some things, I commend her. It is the first time I feel that was a sincere apology. Do I enable the things to happen that do? Yes, some of them. A long time of no contact is a couple of months. Since January, maybe? And again, after the emails and the website postings and the phone calls, I find it hard to see the good in her. It's been a long 2 years. I will try though!


You guys inspire me to begin at another point not the same one I am at right now.


I will say that I am still healing from everything.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-23-2005
Fri, 05-06-2005 - 3:53pm

{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}} to you and hope to see you here soon.

K :)

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-29-2004
Fri, 05-06-2005 - 9:34pm

Dearest Angelena,

It is with great sorrow that I say aloha to you! I'm so sad that your mother and OW have disgraced themselves the way they have and brought you down with them! Just know, you are a wonderful woman and you have helped me more than you know!!!!!!!!!!!

Take care of yourself and those beautiful kids! Please don't be gone long...if you feel you need to vent, email me at anytime! I will be there for you...I PROMISE!!!!!

HUGS HON!!!

Melanie

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 05-07-2005 - 8:31am

Hi Angelina...


It goes without saying that many of us will miss you here.


But a constant stream of "cross-examinations" for your comments by the OW and "MOM" aren't good either.

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Registered: 03-06-2005
Sat, 05-07-2005 - 12:07pm

Awwwwwww, thanks :)


I will be back..... I just have to lay low for awhile and choose my responses wisely.


Hugs and thank you PG for giving me and us a "male perspective" on a lot of things.


You are a wonderful spirit and your posts of advice have made me learn and smile :)


Hugs,


Angelena


PS. I will miss everyone :(

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