Ok how do you do it??????

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Ok how do you do it??????
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Thu, 07-21-2005 - 11:24am
Hello all I have posted here a couple of times. My STBX filed for divorce on the 13 of July. This is not what I wanted at all!!!! This came as such a shock to me, we really have had a
wildthing siggy
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Registered: 06-03-2005
Thu, 07-21-2005 - 8:47pm
My situation is very similar, married 7 years stay to home mom, my dh also said he was no longer in love with me, and left. I thought we were very happy, we never fought, had regular sex, went out on dates etc. After the fact I found out there was another woman also married they now plan to be together. I am heart broken. It has been 5 months now and every day has gotten easier, I did seek IC which helped alot and have great friends. I kept the house and he is paying supprt, nut we nmow ar eno longer friends, which is the worst part, but I cannot be, thats the worst part, we fight now and half the time hate eachother, but we are getting thru it. You will too, one day at a time.
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Registered: 04-02-2003
Fri, 07-22-2005 - 4:44am

hugs... honey, i am going to be gentle - but blunt (hope that's ok...)


your husband made this decision, and you can't force him to change. it would be nice if you could - but there you have it: that's life. he is a grown man, and (it sounds like) his brain is in his watchamacallit right now. he either has someone else - or not , but he has made up his mind. it would be good IF you could get him to therapy with you : i am not sure if