Ok, Im back, & NOT in jail! Phew! lol
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Ok, Im back, & NOT in jail! Phew! lol
| Mon, 02-25-2008 - 1:13pm |
Thank you guys for all your thoughts.
Ok - so i TOLD my atty last week ... "dont you think we either need the doc there (who said he would come) or at least something in writing to say that he DID tell me to continue to hold visitation?" & my atty said "Not unless we have a hearing, we have to see what happens on Monday". WELL - sure enough, X & X's atty "had
discrepancies" in what apparently THEY heard from the doc, as opposed to what *I* heard (which was


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Good point. The only reason i did that was so that the actual worst facts were more easily picked out quickly, upon glancing at it. Like when my atty had it in hand to speak with teh judge, he cant read thru pragaraphs or long sentences, does that make sense?
I am glad your are organized.
Rebecca, Mom to Averey, 2/8/00, Kibo, Sana & Zuri too!
Didnt take it that way at all. Promise!
& i am SO sorry about the false accusations on you.
You're welcome! I really hope you win; he sounds horrid to her and to you. No one deserves that; it's inexcusable.
If you had actually spent one second in jail over this, I would stand on the mountain top and scream, "THERE IS NO JUSTICE IN THIS WORLD!!!" LOL! I had a feeling the contempt charges would be thrown out.
And you are BRILLIANT for keeping such detailed records of the interactions and problems. I have to tell you, what he has done is so shocking, it's unbelievable.
In the end, I know you'd love it if Avery's dad could just get well, but until (and if) he does, you'll have to continue to make hard choices to keep her safe.
PS - What does your ex do that he can never afford food and has no money? You two have been divorced for q while now. When is he actually going to get back on his feet!!?!?
Thanks.
ACTUALLY, my X never graduated, but has a GED. He's basically a laborer. We DO live on an island where it IS hard ot get that kind of work in the winter ... BUT, for over TWO YEARS now, he has worked full time boat building, all year round, AND he freaking makes $21/hr! His car payment is $200 & his rent is $650, including all. He puts no $ in retirement, insurance, etc. The only other bill he has is CS of $70/week, which he hasnt paid in 42 weeks.
SO ... where does all his money go? BOOZE. Nice restaratunts? He is ALWAYS out on the weekends, taking women on dates to restaraunts i KNOW the bill is at LEAST $100.
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