OK now I've got the GF putting in 2cents

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Registered: 10-30-2004
OK now I've got the GF putting in 2cents
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Tue, 08-30-2005 - 3:47pm

Ex was whining to GF about the school clothes/supplies issue and how I had complained that I worked overtime to help pay for stuff. Soooooooooo her comment is that if I have to work overtime to buy stuff that maybe I should find a cheaper place to live!!!!! OMG, I could strangle her. She has a childsupport check every week, how dare she judge me.

She is also whining about my work schedule and saying that my job dictates his life. Well tough luck! They are his kids too. If he can't handle having them those three lousy days then I don't know what to say. Hell he wouldn't be able to spend the time he does with her if it wasn't for the fact that I request every Friday off and have them on Fridays even on his weekend!!! I didn't see them complaining when I offered to take them on 4th of July (his day) or Labor day (also his day).

I'm just so sick of both of them. I feel like calling her and telling her to come here and say that crap to my face!!! She should realize from her own experience that she's only getting half the story. God I haven't met her and I hate her alreayd.

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Registered: 10-30-2004
Thu, 09-01-2005 - 3:08pm

Well my concern is that he's going to move to her town and get some idea that he's taking the kids with him. Ahhhh I don't friggen think so! I really need to talk to a lawyer about my rights and whether or not he can use my work hours against me in order to get custody.

His GF and him were also dumping on me because on my days off I want my son to take the bus to school (he goes to high school the next town over) because I can't drop my 8 year old off till 7:20 and that will make him late. My ex always used to drop him off because it's on his way to work. Now he doesn't want to because he feels it should be my responsiblility on my days. I say he can take the bus and save on gas! The bus was good enough for me when I was a kid and it's good enough for him. The ex spoiled him and now that he has a GF he doesn't want to do it.

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Registered: 11-02-2004
Thu, 09-01-2005 - 4:48pm
Ug, who needs that! She has no room to talk and obviously knows nothing about you. Don't let her get you down.

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