Okay Ladies, you're on deck.....

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Registered: 08-17-2001
Okay Ladies, you're on deck.....
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Fri, 04-18-2008 - 9:35am

I need some input here! My XH has been legally divorced from NW#2 for less than SIX months, but dating NW#3 for 8 months. FYI, he married NW#2 11 months after the first date and 7 months after our divorce was final. I got THIS email from him.....

Calla,

Just wanted to let you know that NW#3 and I are planning on getting
married this summer sometime. I told the girls yesterday and they seem
very happy with this.

XH

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Any suggestion on how to respond to this lunacy?

"I figured"?

"What took you so long"?

"Of course you are"?

"Does she know that you've only been legally divorced for 4 months from your SECOND wife?"

"Thank you for telling me"??

What do y'all think?????

~calla~

~calla~  mom to rosie and gracie

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Registered: 02-03-2008
Fri, 04-18-2008 - 10:09am

don't reply at all.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-17-2001
Fri, 04-18-2008 - 10:18am

That's an option, but he'll be cranky with me if I don't respond because that means I didn't get the email in his mind.

Frankly, I think the whole thing is hilarious......

~calla~

~calla~  mom to rosie and gracie

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Registered: 02-03-2008
Fri, 04-18-2008 - 10:22am
then, "Thanks for the info"
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Registered: 01-28-2008
Fri, 04-18-2008 - 1:36pm

How about "good luck to you"


Or Good luck with this one!

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-17-2001
Fri, 04-18-2008 - 1:48pm

*L* I like that.

What I'm going to send is.....

"Wow! Congratulations! I didn't see that coming. Thank you for telling me."

Sarcastic, but also very nice.

~calla~

~calla~  mom to rosie and gracie

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Registered: 11-22-2001
Fri, 04-18-2008 - 5:10pm

How about "Thanks for the info. If you dont mind, I think I'll refrain from purchasing monogrammed towels for your gift though"............


wink wink.....what a louse!


Seriously, I think I'd just reply "thanks for the info. Good luck"


Huge hugs


Deb

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Registered: 08-17-2001
Fri, 04-18-2008 - 7:50pm

DEBS!!!!! How great to see your shining name on my computer!!! And in my thread no less! Bless your heart.

He got what I said....

Wow. Congratulations. I didn't see that coming. Thank you for telling me.

I KNOW he didn't hear the sarcasm in the "I didn't see THAT coming" but he's not really worth it. What IS comforting is that I know him better now than when we were married. I'm sure he was out prowling for women while we were married. I'm sure he is too immature to be alone, and as a wise acquaintance said, "Aw, he loves being married, he's just not very good at it, is he?"

Anything new with Deb????

~calla~

~calla~  mom to rosie and gracie

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Registered: 11-22-2001
Sat, 04-19-2008 - 9:24am

NOt a damn thing is new with Deb. Kids are getting bigger. JOsh graduates 8th grade this year. PS is PS. Same caca, different day--different year!!


What's new with you?????

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Registered: 08-17-2001
Sat, 04-19-2008 - 9:37pm

"PS is PS". That says it all.....

And my idiot XH is idiot XH........ Can you BELIEVE that some woman is stupid enough to be his #3? And her profile on the dating site where they met said, "No spooky skeletons" Don't you think the WIFE would be a spooky skeleton?

Girls are great..... finishing up 7th and 3rd grades! Time flies.....

Glad you're still around!

~calla~

~calla~  mom to rosie and gracie

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Registered: 11-22-2001
Sat, 04-19-2008 - 10:44pm

Well, PS is on his marriage #3 as well...but this wife is a whopping 25 yrs old!! He had to go for a youngin cuz one his age is too smart for him..I highly doubt one his age would put up with his BS ways!!!!!!!


Oh ya, did I mention he's on kid #5? Lets see how long he stays in THIS ones life!

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