OMG i hate him

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Registered: 11-09-2006
OMG i hate him
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Sun, 07-01-2007 - 8:21pm

OMG so he said he was gonna get the kids this weekend and well....he never showed or called!!!! I didn't call/text him either because he is expecting me to call and bitch him out. I am showing him that I don't care anymore even though I do. He still hasn't called or anything. What is his deal. This is like the 4th weekend he has not gotten them.

The kids cry for him and I just don't know what to do anymore....

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Registered: 05-12-2007
Sun, 07-01-2007 - 9:33pm

I'm so sorry... I would hate him too... in fact, right now, xh has promised that he'll come see our son in a few weeks and I'm all ready in the if he doesn't show, frame of mind...


Do your kids know that your x is planning on getting them on the weekend?

 


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Registered: 11-28-2006
Sun, 07-01-2007 - 10:13pm

I cannot imagine the stomach turning pain you feel for your children and the stomach curdling rage you must feel for your X. I am SO incredibly sorry.

My single momma prayers go out to you!

M

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Registered: 04-19-2006
Sun, 07-01-2007 - 11:14pm
I am so sorry you and your kids are dealing with such an insensitive man. I don't have advice but my heart goes out to you.
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Registered: 11-09-2006
Mon, 07-02-2007 - 12:16am
No the kids don't know when their dad is coming. I have gotten into the routine that if he shows, it's a big surprise. If not, well they won't know anyways. I need to come up with some things to do before the end of the summer. I think I will start soon. Thanks for the idea. Thanks for your advice. Good luck to you and your son as well.
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Registered: 12-15-2006
Mon, 07-02-2007 - 8:53am
How old are your kids? My ex used to do the same thing. Just like you, I would call him. Finally, I realized it is his loss. He did this in the beginning of the seperation. I feel as though he did it because he liked the idea of me always having the kids. It took about 6 months of not seeing his kids for him to come around. Five years later, I still do not tell the kids their dad is coming. If he does, he does. I know it is hard. I have been in your shoes. Good luck!
Tiffany
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Registered: 06-17-2007
Mon, 07-02-2007 - 9:03pm
From one single mom to another I just want to say divorce sucks! I never thought it would be this hard. I'm sorry for your pain.