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OMG you guys. S-T-R-E-S-S! (XH)
| Mon, 05-05-2008 - 10:59pm |
Holy Moly - he totally TOTALLY lost it tonite.
| Mon, 05-05-2008 - 10:59pm |
Holy Moly - he totally TOTALLY lost it tonite.
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Rebecca,
Hugs to you and Avery.
Wow! Sounds like a real blood-letting this time.
CL-Wisdomtooth2020
Horrible yes, but I think that the conversation that followed will hoefully be healing for Averey.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
Sorry for your situation.
Hey there rlch,
the decorum of the board prevents me from responding with the four letters words I would prefer to use at this moment.
You continue to amaze me when you post about the latest fiasco with your EX!
once again he went right back to tallying up his "losses" without any recognition
I am thankful that he did admit his fault to her & apoligize & tell her he IS trying.
I think he was truly shocked that he realized there WASNT anything in those pics I was trying to "hide" except what i thought would hurt HIM.
There are a couple issues. Yes, *I* definatly set him off. But he HAS to learn to deal with ME, since I am her mother.
I'm sure the same words are in my head as well. & yes, he is a 5 yr old, in a 44 yr old body.
Sad this IS? He DIDNT see her for SEVEN
Someone else said that & I never even thought of it. She said "Just treat him like you would anyone else. If your freind asked to see the pics, youd show them to her."
& its true. Sure, he still would have freaked about the pics - comments, etc - but it would have alleviated all the build up & what he THOUGHT the pics were (I assume he thought they were me w/ a guy or something).
So, I think I will try that. I cant keep trying to walk on eggshells & protect him. Its ridiculous & I never thought of it. Maybe he just NEEDS that dose of complete reality.
I posted above about my plan. Thanks
Rebecca, Mom to Averey, 2/8/00, Kibo, Sana & Zuri too!
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