OMG you guys. S-T-R-E-S-S! (XH)

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OMG you guys. S-T-R-E-S-S! (XH)
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Mon, 05-05-2008 - 10:59pm

Holy Moly - he totally TOTALLY lost it tonite.

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Registered: 10-25-2006
Tue, 05-06-2008 - 4:29am

Rebecca,


Hugs to you and Avery.


Wow! Sounds like a real blood-letting this time.

CL-Wisdomtooth2020

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Tue, 05-06-2008 - 10:36am

Horrible yes, but I think that the conversation that followed will hoefully be healing for Averey.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Tue, 05-06-2008 - 10:37am

Sorry for your situation.

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Registered: 11-25-2003
Tue, 05-06-2008 - 12:20pm

Hey there rlch,


the decorum of the board prevents me from responding with the four letters words I would prefer to use at this moment.

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Registered: 05-11-2007
Tue, 05-06-2008 - 4:45pm

You continue to amaze me when you post about the latest fiasco with your EX!

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Tue, 05-06-2008 - 6:16pm

once again he went right back to tallying up his "losses" without any recognition

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Tue, 05-06-2008 - 6:18pm

I am thankful that he did admit his fault to her & apoligize & tell her he IS trying.


I think he was truly shocked that he realized there WASNT anything in those pics I was trying to "hide" except what i thought would hurt HIM.

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Tue, 05-06-2008 - 6:27pm

There are a couple issues. Yes, *I* definatly set him off. But he HAS to learn to deal with ME, since I am her mother.

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Tue, 05-06-2008 - 6:33pm

I'm sure the same words are in my head as well. & yes, he is a 5 yr old, in a 44 yr old body.


Sad this IS? He DIDNT see her for SEVEN

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Tue, 05-06-2008 - 6:35pm

Someone else said that & I never even thought of it. She said "Just treat him like you would anyone else. If your freind asked to see the pics, youd show them to her."


& its true. Sure, he still would have freaked about the pics - comments, etc - but it would have alleviated all the build up & what he THOUGHT the pics were (I assume he thought they were me w/ a guy or something).


So, I think I will try that. I cant keep trying to walk on eggshells & protect him. Its ridiculous & I never thought of it. Maybe he just NEEDS that dose of complete reality.


I posted above about my plan. Thanks

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Rebecca, Mom to Averey, 2/8/00, Kibo, Sana & Zuri too!

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