One Day at a Time...

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Registered: 04-09-2003
One Day at a Time...
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Thu, 05-19-2005 - 5:38pm

Taking everything one day at a time is easier said than done! I appreciate everyone who posted to my previous message. I think many of you are right, counseling, for me anyway, is probably best. I have so many emotions and feelings and I just don't know how to express them all or even think straight at times.

I know that I need to give this some time and just see where it leads. My ex and I still have many things that are not resolved. I'm considering asking him to go to counseling with me, if only to better our parenting relationship for our daughter for now.

Anyway, I know that all of this will have to take some time. But it's just so hard for me to sit back and not be in control of things. I tend to be impulsive and want things when I want it and how I want it. I just don't know how I can sit back and try to be just "friends" with the man that I was married to right now. I seem to want to jump back into things full swing and not really deal with the problems at hand - and the problems that are still lingering over our heads.

That leads to questioning my motives for wanting him back as well. Maybe it is normal to want that closeness to the person you thought you were going to spend the rest of your life with. Once again, time will tell.....aaagggghhhh......if only all the tomorrow's in my future didn't seem so far off!

Just needed to vent my frustrations a little! -- Hope everyone is having a good day!

Kait

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 05-19-2005 - 10:03pm

Vent away, Kait... anytime!


Hang in there.... and I do think that counseling is a good route to explore next.... good for you!


Karen ~ wildlucky4me

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~