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| Wed, 05-04-2005 - 1:52pm |
My STBX is such a jerk. I mean- he constantly disrespects me in every possible way. But today he calls, sweet as can be, asking me if I could drop the kids off tonight at his moms (where he is staying). Wednesday nights are his night. I make him pick them up and drop them off. I figure that once a week and every other weekend doesnt require too much travel time, ya know? (15 min one way)
So, I ask... why? Well, I was going to play golf. WTH?? Me make an unnecessary trip to the next town to drop them off for him just so he can play golf? UMMMMM NO!
Next he uses the.... well I always pick up and drop off... line on me. Not working! I mean, I drive them around all week long to all of their activiites, etc. Not only that but Wednesday nights are my nights to clean and grocery shop without 3 kids! I'm not going to compromise that time, that I desperately need BTW, just to let him have his play time. He can golf any day!
Ok, so I really have no point. It's just random complaining from me. Thanks for listening!

I think you're well within your rights to refuse his request...JMHO.
Hope you feel better just by writing that out. Don't forget to plan something fun for yourself sometimes on Wed. nights.