Opinion Please

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Opinion Please
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Tue, 07-12-2005 - 6:42pm

Hi as you al have read posts from me in the last couple weeks my H left my dd and I on Christmas Day and was living with OW. I am getting to the point of being done. It has been almost 7 months. What I need opinion on. I was seeing a guy before my H and I got together. Now we are talking again and are talking about going out this Saturday. Would it be ok to do this. I just want to be happy too. And we are just friends. Is it wrong???

Mindy

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Registered: 02-09-2005
In reply to: jblmom
Tue, 07-12-2005 - 6:55pm
If you are planning on a divorce I would stay as clean as a whistle..JMO.
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Registered: 03-06-2005
In reply to: jblmom
Tue, 07-12-2005 - 9:26pm

Hmmmmmmm, I started dating 6 months after my H left us. He left me and moved in with OW immediately.


In fact, when I filed for divorce I was pregnant with my boyfriend's baby and NONE of it mattered in court except the paternity of the baby and the fact that XH would NOT be required to pay for the baby on top of our 2 children, because the child was conceived within the marriage it is legally considered XH's even though it's not.

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Wed, 07-13-2005 - 10:51am

Thanks. I have decided I am going to. We have talked for the last 3 nights and he is going to call again tonight. It is so nice to have someone to talk to that actually knows a lot about me. Just the companionship is great.

Mindy

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Registered: 03-06-2005
In reply to: jblmom
Wed, 07-13-2005 - 10:55am

I understand all too well :) I dated 2-3 guys before I fell for my current SO. It was nice to have someone outside of the situation to talk to about normal everyday stuff.


Hugs and have fun!