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| Thu, 08-23-2007 - 1:50pm |
Hi Everyone,
Ok, so have any of you lurked on the "Affair Support" and "Ending Affair" discussion boards??
I don't want to start anything negative and I don't know how my post relates to the above topic, but it just prompted me to want to share this. It does take two to tango, but in my situation after all of the sneaking around, "I love yous" and planning to be together in the future my H and OW aren't even together (or so he says)! My H has moved on to a NEW girlfriend (which has been confirmed by other sources). So after 2 years of investing not only in a marriage, but an affair; my H, OW and I all ended up getting terribly hurt all because my H couldn't feed his ego enough on a marraige alone. He used me for stability and her for excitement and now we are all left broken and alone (well my H apaprently isn't alone). As a matter of fact when he was caught, my H called the OW crying about how "they" hurt some one who didn't deserve it. She in turn replied, "you knew what you were doing all along and knew what you were do was wrong."
I found her cell phone number and called her soon after I caught them. She didn't answer her phone, but I left her a voicemail. I told her that I hope she realizes she wasted 2 years of her life with my H and that even though I hated her for what she did to me, she deserved a better man than my lying, cheating H.
I truly believe in what goes around, comes around. Its just a shame that sometimes bystanders sometimes get hurt.
