OW and her obsession with me....

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Registered: 03-06-2005
OW and her obsession with me....
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Mon, 03-14-2005 - 9:09am

I just don't get it.


I FINALLY got this "girl" to take her nasty comments directed at me and naming me off of her website...... She FINALLY won't come with XH to pick up and drop the kids off........... I FINALLY got her to stop emailing me and demanding that she be the only one I contact about the kids. All of this stopped because I threatened to take her butt to court for slander.... not that I really could.... but it must have worked.


Anyway, my question is..... if he left me for her, WHY does she obsess over me? Why does she find it necessary to do things "just to piss me off" and why would she waste her time trying to keep me away from XH? I realize there is an age difference, she is only 20 years old..... maybe it's her "younger" insecurities?


Does anyone else have this problem with OW?


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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-06-2005
Tue, 03-15-2005 - 5:39pm

Your right..... very right.


That's the reason we are in the situation we are in..... we never know that our husbands will leave or that our wives will leave, for whatever reason. Some together for 1 year some together for 30 years... you just never know. BUT it does give us some satisfaction when a particular person comes into our lives that assist in the complete upheaval of everything we ever believed in that deserve what they have coming to them, no matter what, that includes the XH or XW AND OW or OM.



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