Personality disorder reining galore ...

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Personality disorder reining galore ...
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Mon, 05-19-2008 - 6:15pm

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Mon, 05-19-2008 - 6:46pm
Oh geez rlch, what a time for you. My husband, too suffers from a personality disorder (party alcohol induced). It must be very frustrating for you. My STBX as well denied the fact that I had to have him removed from the home by the police (thank goodness my kids are older and don't live here and didn't have to witness it). He has finally come around and stopped drinking, after hitting (I think) rock bottom, but I sure don't trust him. It's always somebody else's fault, that's how they explain their behaviour. I don't hang on to the fact that he will ever be "normal". I am just hoping and praying that he can cope with his life (still facing sentencing for fraud after a year and a half--sorry if I'm repeating myself if you already read my posts), and start to rebuild a relationship with our children. He basically shut them out for about 6 months. The children are the utmost priority for sure. I really hope you and Ave can find some peace in this. It just seems to be never ending for you. I get the "almost comical" thing too. I have experienced that before; sometimes I just shake my head and think " what the h*** are you thinking??" He makes no sense sometimes at all. Anyways, keep us all posted, and we are all here for you.
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Registered: 03-30-2008
Mon, 05-19-2008 - 8:10pm

WOW Rebecca. And Pbthhht to him. Amazing. It seems as though the psych has his number though. Thank goodness for that. NOW if only that mediator you posted about, and the courts, find their way to listen to the psych. GL with that. You deal with a maddening situation on a routine basis. Thank goodness Avery has you!!


Can I ask, is he an active drinker, when he's not with Avery? I only ask, because I see so much of my H's behavior in your H. I'm trying to prepare myself for what is yet to come (I'm only just retained the attorney). And I'm beginning to think getting firm with H (as in not letting him drive the kids since he doesn't have a license) is the way to go. I just love my kids too much to let someone as careless as my H take them away from me.

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Mon, 05-19-2008 - 8:35pm

That is so sad.

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Mon, 05-19-2008 - 9:19pm

Isnt it just amazing how they can deny, blame, etc - & totally beleive it?

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Mon, 05-19-2008 - 9:22pm

Yes, he is an active drinker.

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Mon, 05-19-2008 - 9:23pm

Yes, typical of an alcholic & look at this:


Antisocial Personality Disorder
Symptoms

This disorder is characterized by a long-standing pattern of a disregard for other people's rights, often crossing the line and violating those rights. This pattern of behavior has occurred since age 15 (although only adults 18 years or older can be diagnosed with this disorder) and consists by the presence of the majority of these symptoms:



  • failure to conform to social norms with respect to lawful behaviors as indicated by repeatedly performing acts that are grounds for arrest
  • deceitfulness, as indicated by repeated lying, use of aliases, or conning others for personal profit or pleasure
  • impulsivity or failure to plan ahead
  • irritability and aggressiveness, as indicated by repeated physical fights or assaults
  • reckless disregard for safety of self or others
  • consistent irresponsibility, as indicated by repeated failure to sustain consistent work behavior or honor financial obligations
  • lack of remorse, as indicated by being indifferent to or rationalizing having hurt, mistreated, or stolen from another

Sound familiar?

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 05-19-2008 - 10:39pm

AMAzing!!!


BTW..... loved the pictures.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~