Picture on the internet, part 2

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Registered: 03-06-2005
Picture on the internet, part 2
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Thu, 06-23-2005 - 7:26pm

Ok...


Let me first start off by saying that OW has a serious stalking problem. I got an email from a friend tonight stating text on OW's website, regarding this picture.



I quote:


"I called CPS. Here's the thing, they won't do anything because it wasn't done with the intent to hurt a child. It was done with intent to hurt me. THey were very nice on the phone, although the first guy I spoke to had me in tears. I thought about what if some petophile got ahold of it and did unthinkable things, but god, he explained it to me. I thought OMG, and it scared me to death. BUT, there is NOTHING I can do about it. THat makes me mad. What kind of a system would allow that? I did talk to a supervisor and there is nothing I can do. Not even file a report. "


Maybe now you have learned your lesson and will digress at this point. Unlikely though. You are only hurting yourself by getting all worked up after checking up on me countless times a day. I would think that such energy would be better spent with your children than me. I feel so bad for your babies cooped up in that tiny apartment all day while the sun is shinning and you sit at the computer


What is listed above in quotations is what I had on my personal forum. I started my own forum because I can't do anything on this site or my own site without OW commenting or starting things. So I kept things very generic when responding on here and on my own forum I let it all hang out. It's been up about 2 weeks now. NO ONE knew of this site except a few choice friends who don't even know my XH or OW. Not even my family knew about this forum. So now she does, there goes my privacy and there goes my fear that she will piss me off enough to react to her antics.


Yesterday I had to change my blog web address because she started viewing it regularly and my mother was commenting and bringing personal issues into my blog. I got a new blog set up and things have been quiet. Until now.


So, not only does OW see NOTHING wrong with her taking a bath nude with my daughter but because it pissed me off, I am the bad guy.


So please, all of the level headed ladies on this site, please tell this woman that taking a bath with MY daughter is NOT acceptable no matter how you look at it? It's gross and done ONLY to piss me off.


I am going to have to close down my blogs and my divorce forums. I am so frustrated. She will NOT leave me alone. I cannot have peace.


The rest of her comments aren't even worth responding to.

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Registered: 02-23-2005
Thu, 06-23-2005 - 7:49pm

It's a shame that she has to follow you around and try to make trouble for you. Seems to me that she is afraid of the pain you could cause her, by taking her man away! Maybe she knows that he still has feelings for you?

That being said, she is trying to get the best of you, if you shut down all of your blogs/divorce fourms, she will be doing just that. Just keep posting what you want and where you want. Don't let her get the best of you. If she is stalking you, there are laws againist that very thing, start logging it, snap-shot it, do whatever you can to start building a small case againist her. If she doesn't STOP call your lawyer. If she feels the need to post here, just have her remarks removed, afterall most of what she has to say is againist terms of use policy.

Now about her taking a bath with your daughter, I would be p!ssed and would definately raise he!! about it to whoever would listen, she is putting your daughter's naked body out there for sicko's to use for whatever they wish, just to p!ss you off, sounds like your ex needs to reconsider letting this woman anywhere near his kids, that doesn't say loving, caring responsible step-mom material to me.

Good luck with whatever you decide but don't let her get the best of you, post whatever you want where ever you want.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-06-2005
Thu, 06-23-2005 - 7:57pm

I agree with you. I should be able to do what I want when I want, right?


iVillage Member
Registered: 02-23-2005
Thu, 06-23-2005 - 8:47pm

You aren't insulting her in your posts, your aren't making intentionally painful remarks or comments, simply stating the facts as you see them. She is the one out for blood. I would ignore and delete her remarks everytime something popped up. I would also write a letter to someone, anyone who would listen about her using your daughter in an extremely disgusting way to hurt you. Get it in writting from your ex that it won't happen again, never take their words for anything, especially when the do something so sick to get under your skin..

Besides, you were here first.. Say what you want when ya want... :)

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Registered: 07-14-2003
Thu, 06-23-2005 - 9:28pm

Ang, I'm so sorry you have this lunatic in your life. Definitely document everything. There has to be some prohibition against cyberstalking and harrassment. And I'm just going to chime in: posting that picture for the world to see was disgusting and perverse, and I would not say that if it were a photo in a family album of mother and daughter or even sisters.

Hang in there and be the adult. Big hugs.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-06-2005
Thu, 06-23-2005 - 9:34pm

Thanks guys.


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Registered: 06-11-2004
Fri, 06-24-2005 - 9:42am

Angelena,
Im so sorry you have to go through this. That woman is real sick. She is obviously very insecure about her "relationship". The ex's dont seem to understand all we are doing is wanting what's best for the kids. Im sure she wouldnt like it if some ow did something like that with her kids. Meanwhile she is so dumb probably thinking that you still want your ex back or something otherwise she would not feel the need to do appalling things to try to piss you off.

I too would talk to the courts, authorities, anyone because there are freaks out there online and that picture is way inappropiate.

Hang in there honeybunny. God will take care of her for sure. Your just going through a storm now, hang on, the sun will shine again soon.