Picture posted on the internet

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Registered: 03-06-2005
Picture posted on the internet
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Mon, 06-20-2005 - 6:46am

Hi guys,


I have a question. This morning I woke up to an email from my friend stating that OW's website was disgusting and that it had to do with my kids.


I looked.


There is

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Registered: 06-09-2005
Mon, 06-20-2005 - 7:37am

((Angelena)) No Freaking way should OW be taking a bath with your daughter!

I also have an 18 month old, and when I wasn't feeling well last week, I put her in the tub with me--so she would stay in one spot while I soaked. :) However, I am her mother, I nursed her for 12 mos, yada yada.

I say call your attorney! Demand that picture come off the internet--threaten to call child protective services~

I'm sorry-this just sucks

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Registered: 03-06-2005
Mon, 06-20-2005 - 9:12am

That's what I thought too. I am going to make some calls this morning. I just think it is inappropriate to say the least.


I tried talking to XH about it this morning and all he could say was "you think her site is bad, you should see all the dirty laundry I air on my site!" Then he called me a hipocrite because both he and I took showers with our son if

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Registered: 06-17-2004
Mon, 06-20-2005 - 9:23am
OMG!!!!!!!!
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Registered: 03-06-2005
Mon, 06-20-2005 - 9:27am

Well I am glad to see that I am not overreacting. I just got off the phone with Family Court and I also left a message with my attorney ( second one ) I will see what my options are.


Thank you so much for your support.


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Registered: 12-16-2004
Mon, 06-20-2005 - 10:19am
Um, totally unappropriate. I wouldn't even havea problem with you taking a bath with your daughter .. it's YOUR daughter. But she was totally out of line, and like you said, to have ahd someone else there taking the photo .. just wrong. I hope you are able to get her to take it down off her website. That makes it doubly wrong. It was wrong for her to have a) done it, b) had a photo taken c) posted the photo for the whole world to see.
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Registered: 03-06-2005
Mon, 06-20-2005 - 10:47am

Well, the sense comes in now because she cropped it taking out the nudity. What she doesn't understand is even though it was done with no intent to hurt my daughter ( intended to hurt me instead ) , someone looking for child porn can save a picture like that and use it. OW looks to be very young and my daughter is obviously young. Unfortunately you hear about things like this all the time and that makes me sad that she would expose my daughter and herself like that for that matter.


My XH said he won't let it happen again, but will he or will he just not post the pictures on the internet?


Thanks for everything guys.


Hugs,


Angelena


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Registered: 12-16-2004
Mon, 06-20-2005 - 11:02am
Cropped or not, it still doesn't belong on there. Can you tell they are naked? Does it say it is of she and your daughter in the tub? It still doesn't belong up there. You're right, she did it to hurt you, especially knowing that you check out her website, but it still should NOT be posted on the internet.
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Registered: 06-14-2004
Mon, 06-20-2005 - 11:39am
No, I don't think you are overreacting. I can understand a parent bathing with a young child, but you wouldn't take a picture and you certainly wouldn't post that on the internet. I can't even begin to imagine what would make her think it would be normal behaviour for her, not a parent (not even a step parent, which still wouldn't be acceptable IMO) to do that, and then to take a picture, and post the picture on the internet. With all the sickos that are out there who would find that appealing-ew! It may have been intended as some sort of twisted dig at you, but it's just plain twisted.
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Registered: 03-06-2005
Mon, 06-20-2005 - 11:41am

Well I don't check her website, I hear about it from the 40 people that do check her site... it's annoying at times ;) ( I am trying so hard to get out of this funk today, ever since I saw that I am just disgusted and funk'd out )


Originally, yes you could tell they were both naked. I could see her whole body and my daughter's too. The camera was angled towards the tub so I could see all the way to the bottom. I am telling you, idk why XH would allow her to post those pictures of our daughter let alone his girlfriend. It makes no sense.


Now I hear it is cropped so you can see their faces only. It does say they are in the tub.


Your right, it doesn't belong up there. I can't force them to take it down, so I am taking other avenues. I am waiting for 2 callbacks on this. I have never been in this situation before so I have no idea how to deal with it....


If she would leave me the hell alone, life would be much easier. BUT I am glad I know that they take bathes together, as inappropriate, disgusting and outright WRONG that it is. I can watch for further things and see just HOW FAR she will take it.


Thanks again.... I need a vacation, far far away.


We booked one over the weekend, but it isn't until October and it is FAR FAR AWAY, but October is so far away.... ugh.


Hugs,


Angelena

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Registered: 03-06-2005
Mon, 06-20-2005 - 11:47am

I know your right about the dig at me.


That is exactly what it was. The last few days have been full of posts towards me. From my daughter not wanting to go with them and my "condoning" her bahavior to taking my son out to pick out a new guitar for XH for Father's day ( I bought him his last guitar and when he first left I asked that he not get rid of that one, she knew about it and knew that it bothered me then, it doesn't now, actually it's funny she bought one that looked just like the one that XH's first wife gave him ) all sorts of things. This just tops the cake.


There are too many sickos out there. Pictures like that of her or my daughter could get used for very sick and twisted things, that makes me sick to my stomach to even think about.


Your right also about no step parent should be bathing with step kids. Swim, yes, unclothed, no way. I would NEVER allow my SO to do that with my kids or even his son. Not that he would even feel comfy doing that. Heck, I don't feel comfy being nude in front of my kids when I did take a shower with my son when he was

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