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please help, divorce questions
| Mon, 10-15-2007 - 3:28pm |
I am a 26 year old mom of two, i have been married for two years and been with him for 9 years now. I have wanted out of this realationship for several years now, but got pregnant with my son who is now 3 and decided to stay and try to make it work. I have now decided that i can no longer do this and that i feel like ive wasted half my life away.

Since I didn't have kids when I divorced, I won't be able to answer your questions about that.
Hi there!
I am in the exact same predicament.....
If you find any info, please share it with me.
I live in Colorado and am trying to get back to SC. He has promised a fight and since he drug me thru a bankruptcy, I have no money for a good attorney.
I know that in Colorado, if you move back home BEFORE the filing, and he files within 6 months, you have to come back and fight.
If he files 6 months and 1 day after you move to a new state, he has to fight it out there and your chances of getting to stay are better.
Colorado is a 50\50 state and that stinks cuz I have a feeling that there is no way I can leave.
Isn't it sad that a court can tell you where you can and cant live?
But if your H is like mine, he will file the day you set foot on the plane.
Please keep me posted...
You can NOT leave the state with your children in most states.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
I think that too, has to do with each state.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
So far that has not been a problem.
Good!... but I'm telling you... in serious situations (life or death) they WILL ask, so it's better to be proactive and think about that scenario now, rather than when you are faced with a challenging situation.
But you're right... some people have no idea what the consequences of their actions are... and will "document" themsevles really nicely.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~