please help! Scared to go through with divorce
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|Sat, 07-27-2013 - 2:32am|
I'v been married 10 years. No children. Mostly unhappy. I HAVE NO IDEA WHY I AM STILL HERE! we go through some good times and have secure plans for the future, but I have felt dead inside for so long. I am pretty sure that I do not love my husband. I don't even believe he loves me. I still wish that this were not so and I keep wishing that somehow he would sweep me off my feet and become the man I always wanted so that I could love him. I am reluctant to hurt him by leaving him since it would break my heart to hurt him but sometimes I think that he wouldn't even care if I left and that I'd be doing him a favour to leave??? yes we HAVE been to counselling multiple times, it helps on a temporary basis but eventually he falls back to the normal way he is and I fall back to me, and since we have nothing in common. I think that we really shouldn't be together and that we would both be happier if we weren't together ( it is SO HARD FOR ME TO ADMIT THIS!)
my questions I guess are: how to actually do the leaving? What to tell our friends and family?