PLEASE HELP....INFO /ADVICE NEEDED!
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PLEASE HELP....INFO /ADVICE NEEDED!
| Tue, 09-11-2007 - 11:29pm |
I didnt know where to post this...I need help/advice!
Here is my situation in short... Been married 2.5 years, Have a 2.5 year old son. I am /have been a stay at home mom . I have no college education therefore , I will be making minimum wage at any job I get. My husband brings in $4,200.00 a month after taxes. We live paycheck to paycheck because of debt.
House, Truck, Loan , credit cards.....

I am sorry for what you are going through. Does he want to divorce or do you? If this is your choice because your husband is abusive, disrespectful or cheating? If so, then I would say divorce is the right choice, especially if there is abuse. If you want the divorce for other reasons, think about this even more than you have already. Read some books on divorce, talk to different people who have experienced divorce. One great book that I am reading is "Between Two Worlds" by Elizabeth Marquardt (spelling may be wrong, sorry). You will be fine and recover from a divorce but your son will not be the same. I divorced 5 years ago and have two sons age 8 and 10. I am happily remarried but my sons have suffered greatly and will continue to do so the rest of their lives. We had a "friendly" divorce and they see each parent equally. But it is still very painful for them. Divorce is sometimes necessary but many couples go into not knowing what they are getting themselves into. Inform yourself before making any final decisions. Best of luck to you.