Please read - urgent

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Registered: 12-21-2004
Please read - urgent
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Thu, 10-26-2006 - 10:37pm


If you have been reading my prior posts you will understand that I'm having trouble with my truck driving husband. I did file for divorce today - it will be through publication in the local paper - I was so happy - to have things moving along and then just read what happened after I got home. This has scared the s@#% out of me - even though maybe the woman is so high and in another state or something....if only she knew I would hand her my husband on a silver platter.......I should be the one threatening her - she is sleeping with my husband but read on about what happened:

Ya'll will never believe this tonight my cell phone rang it showed restricted. This woman started cussing me for every thing in the entire world. She said "so you think I'm a truck stop whore"...she just kept cussing me and threatening to come beat my ass....and she is running around with MY husband - what the f@@# - I should have been calling her. I couldnt' get a word in edgewise - I have no idea who she was but she had to be high on something. She said I had been running my mouth to her friends -- I'm like what? I said who? She named the man's name that my husband had talked to 102 times last month - maybe people was right and she is seeing this mans daughter or wife or something - something is really freaky. I know that I won't ever speak to him again. He called me anyway I didn't call him. we go disconnected. I was so scared and crying. I went outside and when I got back in I had a voice message that said "she didn't know why I turned the phone off" that she would come meet me and we would get it on....said that she knew where I live and that she has been here 3 times. It scared the **** out of me - I called Verizon to trace the calls they had me call the police - I had three loads of deputys here for over 2 hours. They said I was so much better off without him - that she sounded about 22 on the phone and that she could have even been in the truck with him when he come home before - gosh that makes me sick. My children were here. They said drug addicts are like that - they will find them a 22 year old - they'll do drugs a while and then she will drop him for someone else -they said some husbands will even let their wives go with these men. I never ever want my husband around me again. I can't believe he was there when she called me - becuase I honestly don't think he would let her call me like that and talk to me in that way. I think I'm going to have a nervous breakdown tonite. She kept saying " I ain't no truckstop whore" well whatever she is - she is going with a married man - and she knew it and told me to quit spreading rumors about MY husband. Even the police said it would have made more sense if I had been threatening her...heck she can have him and I hope they rot together in prison. I just hate it for my kids.

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Registered: 05-29-2006
Thu, 10-26-2006 - 10:52pm
Just keep you doors locked ,dont answer the door. keep your kids safe and keep in contact with the police. They will get her or him if he is behind it.
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Registered: 06-02-2006
Fri, 10-27-2006 - 3:44am

gal_jasper,

OMG, what a horrifying experience! You must have been so frightened. I am so glad that you stood up for yourself and called the police. ((((hugs)))) I wish I had some words of wisdom, but I am at a loss. Keep hanging in there, and keep us up to date.

Rebecca

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Registered: 12-21-2004
Fri, 10-27-2006 - 4:57am
Here it is 4:00 in the morning and I am awake shaking....I am so mad this morning that because of some crazy woman that I have had to change my cell phone numbers and am going to spend the day trying and changing my house phone. I never ever thought it would come to this. It is is hard for me to believe that my husband was there and letting her talk to me in that way. Maybe he was passed out somewhere. I honestly would hand him to her on a silver platter - they deserve each other..she kept saying....come on bitch and I'll show you what a truck stop whore is (the only time those words came out of my mouth was to a truck driver that said he was friends with husband but had no idea where he was. I guess the man was trying to get me to say something. The girl told me that I had been talking to one of her friends and she named the friends name... I wonder if the woman is his daughter or something - maybe that would explain the 102 phone calls to that number - but if it was his daughter and if he is a truck driver like he says why would his daughter and the police said it could actually be his wife - that men do stuff like that. I want no contact with any of them ever again. And I'm not even going to worry about how he will talk to his children if he ever decides to call them again. In the divorce papers he is granted no visitation rights since he abandoned them and the divorce is being served by publication. My children were so upsetlast night. Please pray for us.
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Fri, 10-27-2006 - 9:27am

Prayers are coming your way!


I agree with you... so stick to your word and don't even talk to any of them.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~