Jesus! I was just agonizing about how much my divorce process is sucking and I read your posting! I wish someone had told me that you don't need all the discovery- it's too much and expensive to gather. What a hell it was- I nearly killed myself copying for hours and gathering all my financial papers (for the last 5 years!). Everything. Every last receipt and statement. Your attorney should have told you they barely glance at the documents. I don't know your situation (and I have learned the hard way that every divorce is different) but it sounds similar to mine (evil ex-spouse trying to gain access to my family funds and accusing me of hiding money (I wish I had!). We're almost done with the whole stupid process but who knows what he'll accuse me of next. I thought I would be happy to have him out of my life but I see him more now than I did when we were married because he has the kids so often. This is my first time posting any kind of reply on the Web- I don't know if you'll get this message. If you do- good luck- I feel your pain also. You'll make it through this.
Rebecca, we need to throw you a cyber party when this is all done. You have been through so much, it is just insane. I admire you're strength and conviction.
How did everything go on the stand? And did your STBX manage to show his true colors when he went up there? I hope it went well. Please update us.
We're thinkin' about ya!.... Rebecca (rlch) - Sending you good luck..
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
GOOD LUCK!
SENDING YOU POSITIVE VIBES~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
HUGE HUGS!
hugs~
Lexi
Hugs~ Lexi
"Shoot for the moon and if you miss you will still be among the stars" ~ Les Brown
Rebecca, we need to throw you a cyber party when this is all done. You have been through so much, it is just insane. I admire you're strength and conviction.
How did everything go on the stand? And did your STBX manage to show his true colors when he went up there? I hope it went well. Please update us.