Hi. Sorry you find yourself in this situation. It's not easy.
I find it interesting your husband feels "trapped." Trapped by what? Responsibility?
I really encourage you to go to marriage counseling. Make the appointment and go. Don't worry about whether he's "reluctant" the time to grow up was over 2 years ago when your first child was conceived. Spouses who balk at counseling usually don't want to take responsibility for themselves, their choices, or the consequences of their choices. So, you'll have to be the adult in this relationship and take the bull by the horns.
If he doesn't go to counseling, I encourage you to go by yourself. You need objectivity right now and that's a great way to get it.
Jb,
Hi. Sorry you find yourself in this situation. It's not easy.
I find it interesting your husband feels "trapped." Trapped by what? Responsibility?
I really encourage you to go to marriage counseling. Make the appointment and go. Don't worry about whether he's "reluctant" the time to grow up was over 2 years ago when your first child was conceived. Spouses who balk at counseling usually don't want to take responsibility for themselves, their choices, or the consequences of their choices. So, you'll have to be the adult in this relationship and take the bull by the horns.
If he doesn't go to counseling, I encourage you to go by yourself. You need objectivity right now and that's a great way to get it.
Good luck. Keep us posted.
CL-Wisdomtooth2020