Pretty Pathetic

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Registered: 01-04-2004
Pretty Pathetic
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Sun, 06-19-2005 - 3:54pm
Well, I have been posting here on and off and some of you may know my situation. I have been married 2 yrs, together 7yrs. I am 23, and incredibly unhappy. Hubby seems to have no clue, although, we never talk, never do anything together, and almost never have sex. How is it that they have no clue? Well anyways, I attempted to have sex with him today, because I was feeling somewhat horny and figured, well I do have a man here, and it lasted a whole 2 mins, and at the end hes like Sorry, he he. Like its funny that I get no satisfaction from sex. How do you leave a man who has no clue your unhappy without it totally coming off as a shock? I don't want to hurt him, I care about him. But I don't love him anymore. We are like roommates.
Thanks in advance for the advice.
Chrissy
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Registered: 02-19-2004
Sun, 06-19-2005 - 5:56pm
My ex-h didn't seem to care that my needs always came last, or not at all. My leaving him was a shock at first, but then he admitted that it was best, that we weren't right for each other and he knew it. It was harder at first, he panicked and said he'd do anything to keep me (strange how he wouldn't do anything when it was just my needs, but he would when it came to his losing my support of him). But then reality sunk in and he realized that he shouldn't have been so surprised. Whether you try to make it work with him or not, you have to tell him this situation is unbearable. Give him the clue.

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