Question about relationship and separate

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-10-2008
Question about relationship and separate
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Tue, 04-15-2008 - 2:28pm

My husband and I are going to separate for the next 4 months.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Tue, 04-15-2008 - 3:41pm
I don't know if there are any rules about this.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-10-2008
Wed, 04-16-2008 - 1:41pm

Thanks!


The reason for the separation is because of 5 years of extreme control and manipulation on his part.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-11-2007
Wed, 04-16-2008 - 3:10pm

You can only control yourself and your actions.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-14-2007
Thu, 04-24-2008 - 6:54pm

Hi luv,


I just came across your post and I am in the same situation right now.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-10-2008
Fri, 04-25-2008 - 2:56pm

Thank you for the advice.


Tomorrow is D-DAY.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-14-2007
Mon, 04-28-2008 - 2:18pm

Hi Michelle,


I just wanted to check in with you and see how you're doing and how the move went.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-10-2008
Mon, 04-28-2008 - 6:32pm

This move sits near the top of my list of horrible, painful experiences.


Friday night when I got home things were so tense I decided to move RIGHT THEN.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-14-2007
Tue, 04-29-2008 - 5:30pm

Friends are great...I don't know what I'd do without mine. I probably would have fallen apart a while ago and continued to go along with my H's manipulation.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-10-2008
Tue, 04-29-2008 - 10:47pm

Thanks for the advice.