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| Sat, 05-19-2007 - 9:26am |
Hi. My STBX turns 40 tomorrow. I wondered if it would be stupid of me to send an e-card. I initiated the divorce, although he formally filed, we are almost done, and we communicate OK (business-like, sometimes friendly) about our two daughters. I don't hate him, just don't want to be married to him.
Is there some "rule" about this? I mean, this is a milestone in the life of the father of my kids so it seems appropriate to honor that since we don't hate each other. On the other hand, we're divorcing, so maybe this would just confuse things. I will see him when I drop our DD back off tomorrow, so maybe I could just say happy birthday without the formality of an e-card (if e-cards are even really all that formal...)
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I think acknowledging his birthday whether it's an e-card or a verbal greeting would be fine.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
When I dropped off kids before Christmas, he wanted us to get a motel room and celebrate Christmas together( HUMMM!!!). Later found out he married her the very next day.
Edited 5/19/2007 10:43 am ET by ohearto