So I have a question... Do any of you
It makes me mad more than anything else, but I left my husband because of his cheating. I do feel like he took something away from me, that I will never have, like long time anniversaries, sharing graduatons and other special moments in our children's lives. But I am also quite happy without her.
I would guess that your emotions are tied up with your Dad's passing away at the same time.
I feel like that sometimes also... I have been divorced since 2008
I think Deedle is right, the passing of your dad and seperation/divorce are probably one big mixed moment in your life and thoughts of either trigger thoughts of the other.