Rant - communication
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Rant - communication
| Tue, 07-10-2007 - 6:11pm |
Why does the person that wants out of the relationship not know how to talk? To express their feelings? Come on! If my STBX had actually had the balls to sit down with me and tell me what was wrong, what he was feeling, that he was thinking he wanted out.... This would be going a LOT smoother right now! Don't just jump on your spouse and say Hey, I don't love you anymore, It's over! wtf?? I really wish people would learn to communicate better. Is it because somewhere in the back of their head they really don't want to hurt us?
Well let me tell you, it's worse when you hold things from us! So if you are here because you are thinking of leaving your spouse, don't be like my STBX, give them the courtesy of a good explaination, not just some BS about how it's all their fault. Unless of course your STBX is abusive or something, they don't deserve anything.
Just my rant for the day!
Well let me tell you, it's worse when you hold things from us! So if you are here because you are thinking of leaving your spouse, don't be like my STBX, give them the courtesy of a good explaination, not just some BS about how it's all their fault. Unless of course your STBX is abusive or something, they don't deserve anything.
Just my rant for the day!

Un huhn! Yep. Mine went to multiple marriage counselors with me, but basically just went along for the ride, I guess.
Wouldn't have saved my marriage I don't think at this point, but I wish I hadn't put in all that effort trying to save something he didn't value enough to lift his head of the back of the chair for.
Meg
Another "amen sister" here. Mine couldn't believe I didn't see it coming. Excuse me - you never said you were unhappy and you "can't put into words how I feel" - so how was I supposed to see that coming?
Perhaps you are confusing me with your woman on the side to whom you must have been telling all of this!
Sorry to hijack your rant. Amen Sister.