re: Divorce Depression

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Registered: 01-23-2007
re: Divorce Depression
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Sun, 01-28-2007 - 3:11pm
I want to thank everyone for the support, it does help. Well the papers are signed, and turned in. He already has a relationship, he says she treats him really good! Well it hard to face the fact, that it's really over, and there is no second chances. I really wanted to think after a 1 1/2 yr. separation, we could get back together, but I should of know then. He did say he wanted a physical relationship, but not a dating one, then he told me if this relationship doesen't work, maybe we'll talk. I don't want that, but hope stays in the back of my mind, that his realtionship won't work. I don't want to think about that anymore, because I know, it's over, and he won't ever be back. So why do I still hold out hope, when I know it's not good for me. I just love this man, even after everything he put me through. He's gone on, why can't I?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 01-28-2007 - 4:28pm

pink331...

Quick question from Pianoguy:

"Could you really love your EX again if you knew deep down inside that his interest in you was strictly 'for lust' only?"

Why not give yourself enough time to heal? And during the 'healing process'---ask yourself what you could have done differently and what you shouldn't have done at all?

This way...when another man enters your life...you won't make the same mistakes TWICE!

Best wishes and warm thoughts...

Pianoguy