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Reality hits
| Sat, 06-25-2005 - 6:38am |
Sat thru a mediation appt yesterday. Just an individual one for me. We have had a joint one prior. Reality has set in. Alternating holidays? Less or more than 105 overnights? I hate my H for forcing my hand with this. After he had lunch with my daughter (who knows about the affair) and the OW I really had no option. I am sad, depressed, angry. I have a PT job that I love. It is the perfect job for anyone with school age kids.
I will have to give it up. It won't be enough income. Why do I feel like the one being punished for his actions? He still makes his money, still works with the OW, can come and go as he pleases. The thought of the kids being split for holidays is killing me. It's something I never thought of. I hate him for this.
I will have to give it up. It won't be enough income. Why do I feel like the one being punished for his actions? He still makes his money, still works with the OW, can come and go as he pleases. The thought of the kids being split for holidays is killing me. It's something I never thought of. I hate him for this.

hugs.... there isn't much that i can say to you that will comfort you, just wanted to know that i feel your pain and i hope and pray that things will get better for you...
you're right - its not fair, its not right,but you know that it is a reality. and yes, it will be hard on your kids but i can tell you that