Refinancing went through

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Refinancing went through
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Thu, 06-26-2008 - 10:51am

We did the refin. last night.

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Registered: 03-30-2008
Thu, 06-26-2008 - 12:09pm

Oh Music, I can so relate to the BS with them and their new stuff. My H is supposed to (FINALLY) move from a hotel to an apt. on July 5 (why not the 1st??) and evidentially he's buying all new since he's not mentioned a word about how he'll move stuff from our marital home? Where the boys and me should be when/if he's going to move anything? No talk of what his plans are. I guess he'll address that the night before (if not the morning of).


Arghhhh. As I've been saying all along, I hope things progress smoothly. It looks like that light at the end of your tunnel is no longer a speeding freight train ;) Hang in there!

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Thu, 06-26-2008 - 3:51pm
If there's a speeding freight train, I'd like him to be under it.
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Registered: 04-27-2008
Mon, 06-30-2008 - 6:58pm
Had to laugh at your last response music. My STBX has finally agreed that he cannot come back to live in the house, and has stopped blaming me for (now) not allowing it to happen. He too, threatened to make me (us) to sell the house until he realized that no money would be made from it. He's been banking $1500/ month with no expenses, but still says he has no money, geeze, unbelievable.
Hate to have someone else share the same anguish, but it does help ;)
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 06-30-2008 - 8:25pm

Well at least you're getting him out of there.

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Tue, 07-01-2008 - 11:54am

I have to say that last night I was depressed cause I realized that he is probably not going to move out until Aug 1, if that.