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Roll Call! We haven't done this...
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Sun, 08-06-2006 - 3:46pm

in a while! Lurkers, please come out of hiding, too. Anything you want to share...age, location, kids (if any) and how far you are along in the divorce process.


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Registered: 08-22-2003
Mon, 08-07-2006 - 5:16am
i'm harleypo and new to this board though i have posted on others before. i'm 43, have a very mature and fantastic 14 yr old daughter, and i am ready for a new beginning. i am just starting divorce proceedings. have been subjected to domestic abuse and now betrayal. i want to get through this like a lady with class. hold my head up high and hang onto my dignity.
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Registered: 06-09-2006
Mon, 08-07-2006 - 6:52am
I am 38 years old, currently seperated since April plan to file as soon as the one year seperation is up(state law). I live on the east coast. I have a DS who is 13 and twin DD who are 6 years old. I use to post untill my husband hacked into my computer and was reading what I was writting so I lurk every day. You guys are a big help for me. Thanks.
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Registered: 05-29-2003
Mon, 08-07-2006 - 10:36am
Fzz, 36, Cincinnati OH, been divorced 11 months, first-time marriage, no kids but a great dog, wondering if I will ever have a social life again. No friends b/c everyone else is married/dating/has their families nearby to do things with and I don't go out much so I have no idea how I would find a potential partner. This board is very helpful so thanks to each of you. Love Fzz
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Registered: 03-14-2006
Mon, 08-07-2006 - 11:19am
Sandra, 39, Cripple Creek CO, I have two boys 14 & 17 and my paperwork should be filed today. Married 20 years but sooooo ready for a new start! Good Luck to everyone going through this!
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Registered: 02-14-2005
Mon, 08-07-2006 - 11:25am

i'm Alison (Ali)... it was a year in June that my divorce was finalized... was separated in February 2005... I live in PA (no fault state - divorce took 90 days!!).. i'm 36 years old... (i was married half my life to my HS Sweetheart...ugh) i am a Project Manager... i lurk a lot too responding to posts only when i have a strong sense that i need to speak up... but this board has been very helpful to me through my journey...

starlit625 - i can relate to you very well... i went through the same thing... i wanted badly to save my marriage but he wanted out...he wanted to move on with his life... unfortunately i found out recently that he did cheat on me when we were still together... i just feel sad... for HIM... he'll never be happy... and i'm doing pretty good now... there is hope so just hang in there... i didn't believe that time would help... but it really does... hang in there...

hugs to you all...

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Mon, 08-07-2006 - 2:35pm
Kerry, 32, I live in Connecticut. I am a Paralegal, with the hopes to go to Law School when my girls are a bit older. Daughters are almost 4 and almost 10. I filed for divorce in 10/04 after 9 years of a verbally abusive marriage with a gamble-holic, and divorce was FINALLY final last month, 7/10/06. I have survived, and am a bigger, better person. I am in a fabulous relationship that is heading towards marriage with a single dad, also with custody of his 3 year old DD.
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Registered: 07-28-2006
Mon, 08-07-2006 - 6:00pm
My name is Amanda. I'm 37 years old and live in Mississippi. Married for 9 years, divorced for the past 2. Have two wonderful boys - 10 and 7. I lurk a lot here, post on occasion. I'm a paralegal. Having an extremely difficult time getting over my divorce, even after 2 years.
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Registered: 07-15-2006
Mon, 08-07-2006 - 8:18pm

My name is Capri from the sunshine state of Florida....34 years young…Been married for 6 years but together 13 years. I have a 2 year old yummy little boy.

I’m in limbo!!!! I asked my husband for to move out more than a month ago. This is my fork in the road. Should I stay or should I go? That is the question. My gut says I should go but my heart still feels the love. My husband has not been able to support our family financially for a while and I’m tired of his continuous career slump. It has put a lot of stress on my shoulders.

I’m proud for all the chicks on this board for being strong and passing the love and suport!!! What don’t kill us make us stronger!!!!!

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Registered: 11-18-2003
Mon, 08-07-2006 - 11:54pm
Lexi, 33 from Hawaii.

Hugs~ Lexi

"Shoot for the moon and if you miss you will still be among the stars" ~ Les Brown


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Registered: 11-18-2003
Mon, 08-07-2006 - 11:55pm

GOOD LUCK!!

hugs~


Lexi


"When you want to give up and your heart's about to break, Remember that you're perfect God makes no mistakes...Welcome to wherever you are.

Hugs~ Lexi

"Shoot for the moon and if you miss you will still be among the stars" ~ Les Brown


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