That rotten S.O.B.!!!! LOL

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That rotten S.O.B.!!!! LOL
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Fri, 07-07-2006 - 10:42am

Well, STBX stopped by last night to "visit" the kids. Helped him self to some food. I couldn't even look at him and when DD wasn't around, I told him looking at him made me want to puke! Sorry, I couldn't help it because he really does.

Then I told him I hope he'll be a better father than he was a husband. AND GET THIS, he says to me, "YOU TOO, I DIDN'T NEED A MOTHER, I ALREADY HAVE ONE"!!! That rotten S.O.B.! OH, I was sooooooo mad! Well, I guess if my wife served me papers because I was a cheater, you must have to say something to look good to all your loser friends. "Yeah, she served me papers, no big deal, I already had one mother"!!!!

I had to share. I'm still stewing but not as bad as I was yesterday! He drives me nuts and the more I see him and converse with him, the more I realize what a loser he is and that this is the best decision I could have ever made!

Grrrrrrrrrrr!

Thanks for listening!
Jenn

Jennifer

Proud Mom of Travis (15) and Mandi (10)

and our pets, Sully the Dog and Till

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Registered: 05-13-2003
Fri, 07-07-2006 - 1:33pm

I feel your pain. :) I have to tell you that I actually DID puke when I saw my stbx. I had just read his divorce papers stating that he didn't want the children, but he did want the COUCH. He drove up the driveway and when I saw him I ran in the bathroom and puked. I haven't puked since I had morning sickness 5 years ago! How can men be so nauseating??? I hope things get better soon. I'm meeting with my lawyer in an hour so I hope to be better by this afternoon.

Hugs,
Theresa

 

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 07-07-2006 - 1:34pm

Hi Jenn-

Isn’t amazing what these guys come up with? Then, they believe their own twisted representation of the truth. My ex will tell anyone who will listen how “he filed for divorce”. The truth is I kicked him out after the 8th affair, but I let him actually file because I didn’t want to pay for it. He has gone as far as telling my husband how I “made him” sleep on the couch every night. Hmmm, why then was I constantly begging him to come to bed every night? He chose to sleep there. He also told my husband how he did not cheat on me as many times as I claim. HELLO-I HAVE PROOF-pictures, letters, e-mails & phone records.

I am so glad he is somebody else’s problem now! I am so much better off and you will be too!

Karen

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Fri, 07-07-2006 - 4:04pm
Usually... when wives seem like "mothers" to their husbands.... it because the husband is acting like a CHILD!

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~