Scared I may have been the jerk

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-17-2007
Scared I may have been the jerk
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Tue, 07-10-2007 - 9:55pm

I was gong through tx for Hodgkins and i was a terrible person to my hubby. I realized after tx that I hated him for my being sick. Now he and I are literally at teh bargaining table to get out. I wish - if wishes worked... that I would be able to go back. What a lovely person. It is so true when you endure a disease, miscaraige, etc,,etc it either makes you or breaks you..

Peace to all

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-24-2007
Thu, 07-12-2007 - 10:12pm
Fndolly,
Are you sure your relationship is over? Have you tried to apologize for what you wish you w/could have done differently? Can he forgive you, especially given the strain you were under? Have you two gone to counseling? I hope your battle with Hodgkins is over, but I hope your relationship doesn't have to be. Take care of yourself.
T
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Tue, 07-17-2007 - 4:36pm

Hey.... maybe you were.... but you were also under a LOT of stress.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~