separated and living together

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Registered: 04-18-2008
separated and living together
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Fri, 07-25-2008 - 1:58pm

For a few months my

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Registered: 04-09-2008
Fri, 07-25-2008 - 3:05pm
I have friends that are in situations like yours (sexless marriage, get along great as friends), but they are all "married" (meaning they haven't discussed divorce).
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Registered: 11-28-1999
Fri, 07-25-2008 - 3:12pm

I just spent the last 4 mos living w/ STBX because it took longer than I expected for him to get an apt and he's still not fully moved out.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 07-25-2008 - 7:30pm
I've been living with my STBX since we decided to "split", since Dec 1st.
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Registered: 04-18-2008
Mon, 07-28-2008 - 1:16pm

He keeps making plans for “us” to do things together like going to the movies and out to see a band or he invites himself along when I say I am going out to do something. I have now learned to say it is just the girls (if he is not welcome) or I will say if you would like, you can come but it IS just the girls (if I don’t really care).

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Registered: 07-26-2008
Tue, 07-29-2008 - 12:35am

I find myself entering into a very similar situation.

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Registered: 05-31-2008
Thu, 07-31-2008 - 6:11pm

Hello,


I don't have much advice, because my situation sounds a little different than

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Registered: 07-26-2008
Sat, 08-02-2008 - 10:37pm

Hi, me again...well, after a very tough week of emotional ups and downs, we decided that he should move out.