I have friends that are in situations like yours (sexless marriage, get along great as friends), but they are all "married" (meaning they haven't discussed divorce).
He keeps making plans for “us” to do things together like going to the movies and out to see a band or he invites himself along when I say I am going out to do something. I have now learned to say it is just the girls (if he is not welcome) or I will say if you would like, you can come but it IS just the girls (if I don’t really care).
I just spent the last 4 mos living w/ STBX because it took longer than I expected for him to get an apt and he's still not fully moved out.
He keeps making plans for “us” to do things together like going to the movies and out to see a band or he invites himself along when I say I am going out to do something. I have now learned to say it is just the girls (if he is not welcome) or I will say if you would like, you can come but it IS just the girls (if I don’t really care).
I find myself entering into a very similar situation.
Hello,
I don't have much advice, because my situation sounds a little different than
Hi, me again...well, after a very tough week of emotional ups and downs, we decided that he should move out.