Separations that have worked
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Separations that have worked
| Sun, 08-05-2007 - 6:19pm |
Well about 3 weeks ago my husband wanted a legal separation/divorce and now he is ok with us having a general separation. We both have things that happened in our past that we need to deal with through counseling. He wants us to go at this alone and when we are ok then come back together to work on us. I somewhat I agree, but not fully. I don't want to lose him. I love him too much!
Has anyone gone through a separation and it has worked for them. I would love to hear your story.
My heart is breaking!!!!

I think that if you recognize the issues and you are both actively working on them.... then a separation can work.... but if the commitment on either side stops working toward the goal of getting back together, it's not gonna happen.
I just think that with separation, there has to be a lot of trust for it to work.... but it definitely can work.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
Hi angel. I don't have any advise for you because I'm going through the exact same thing. I just wanted to say that it would be nice to talk with someone with the same issues, I know it would be for me. So if you wanna talk with me that would be great.......
Thanks,
Rhonda