Sheer Ugliness .......
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Sheer Ugliness .......
| Tue, 11-08-2005 - 9:39am |
WHEN will it STOP!?!?!?!
This mornings pick up was horrendous. In *front* of our child, he said "You want to F with me & try to get people to testify against me in court?" (he ran into his old boss who 2 months ago told me if i needed him, he woudl be happy to testify to STBX's insanity, alcoholism, etc & i told him that i would give his name to my atty, in case we went to trial - so he is now totally flipped out)


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Wow.. I was hoping that no news..... was good news.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
Is this deja vu or what? Other than the fact I have only one child, most of what you said could be applied to me. As horrible as it is, I guess this board is necessary so we all know that our husbands are doing basically the same thing and we are not the crazy ones.
Hugs sister --
<> THIS IS SO TRUE!!!!!
My ex is a real Dr. Jekyl and Mr. Hyde type character. His "package" looks perfect but contains a rotten core. Now my real challenge is in not beating myself up for (a) marrying him and (b) letting him get away with it for so long and (c) not leaving the marriage earlier.
Regret is a horrible emotion. I don't regret the marriage, because my kids wouldn't exist without that.
I try to remember that when I ask myself how I could be so stupid as to marry that jerk (actually he was nice at that point in time) and how I could be so stupid as to stay for so long.
Rebecca, none of us is stupid...we were in love once with men who changed for the worse.
Cupcake
Hi cupcake...... I knew my marriage was in trouble for 10 years before I left... just 3 years after marrying him.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
VERY well said, Karen. I guess my Dr. J/Mr. H was not unique at all...
Now I have to overcome the hurt that ex is apparently willing and able to change some of his personality defects that made me crazy in his second marriage. OR Mr. H is still in "hyding" (lol). OR perhaps new wife is so desperate, she's willing to put up with it like I was.
Man it hurts, sometimes. But I'm still glad I'm free.
It sure helps my mood to get good feedback from you and others on this board.
A million thank you's!!!!
Cupcake
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