Should he come in my new house?
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Should he come in my new house?
| Thu, 09-22-2005 - 8:42pm |
I might be moving into a new house next month! But my new job might be 4 to midnite, he wants to pick up our son about 5 pm and take him back to the old house where he's staying until it gets sold. I have 2 older kids that will be home at that time when I leave. But I feel like I want my OWN, now, and having him there when I'm not, kinda pisses me off. Should it be okay? He won't snoop or anything right? But he shouldn't get a key for sure right???
Alissa

If the other 2 kids will be there..... I say try it and see how it works.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
I have to say, in my case, one day when my XH dropped off the children after their weekend, he and his girlfriend stood on my porch and asked me ( in front of my 6 year old ) if they could come in and see the childrens' rooms. Shocked, I said yes. What else would I have done? Said NO WAY in front of my son? So I let him in.... she followed.
Since then she has managed to throw in my face that my apartment is "small" "cluttered" and basically been rude about it.
I would try NOT to let him in. If there are ways around it, go for it. It could bite you in the butt someday. Maybe not the way it bit me in the butt, but someway.... when you least expect it. Even if he is being
I had a problem when I moved into my new place a month ago, that my STBX would come in and decide that he wanted to stick around for a bit, use my phone, internet, hang out.
Hopefully having a new place that's "yours" will help to establish new boundaries for him and he'll feel less like he just has the "right" to have access.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~