Should I be here?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-26-2007
Should I be here?
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Wed, 09-26-2007 - 11:10am

I'm so confused and hurt right now, I just can't fathom I could ever feel so bad.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-25-2006
Wed, 09-26-2007 - 12:29pm

Hurting,


I am so sorry your husband is addicted to pornography. Yes, he's addicted. Anyone who subjegates his spouse, children, employment, church life, and all to do something again and again is addicted. Your husband's "drug of choice" is porn. It could be alcohol, drugs, shopping, gambling, sex, or food. He's addicted to porn.


Should you be here? I don't know. Deciding to divorce is not a one-step, six week project. That's a decision you'll need to make with more information.


What I do suggest is you start by talking with your pastor. Yes, you might be "outing" your husband, but I'm here to tell you that your problem isn't unique in the Christian church. Many, Christian

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