Should I go ? Please help!

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Registered: 04-18-2007
Should I go ? Please help!
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Fri, 08-24-2007 - 1:14pm
Hello, I haven’t been on here for awhile. I’m usually just a lurker for other type of boards and just getting what I need from people in simialair situations. But, I need some help. I have been with my DH since I was 15 yrs old we have been together for 15 years now, we have a wonderful 7 yr old girl who is both of ours world. He is a detective and that has put some strain on our relation ship but he has been working really hard on that and I see he is trying. He isn’t working the long hours anymore he isn’t away all the time like he was which, was a huge problem in our relationship. I felt like I was his roommate not his wife and I felt like a single mother. So with all that he moved out we were separated for there months and he wanted us to come and move in with him. And we did. But, when I moved in I found out while we were separated he was talking to a female co- worker every night, he would even get off the phone with me to talk to her. I confronted him and he said it was nothing just some one that didn’t know us and could give him some advice with out prejudice. And that seemed fair but he had sneaked into my phone and began to yell at me for all the guy numbers I had in my phone when they are all work. I and one other girl work at my company and I am in charge of service so I need to get in contact and he knew this but still blew up and this is before I knew about the other girl he was talking to. But, now thing well I thought were getting better we would have some disagreement but nothing to much, Like I said, I see how much he has done to make things better but, yester I said a comment he didn’t like and he stormed off when I called him he said he wants a divorce and wants me to leave. And I think it is time because every disagreement he says the same thing and I feel like I’m walking on eggs shells and I tired. I just don’t want to give up but, he say how many times do we have to go threw this after all this time it should be smooth sailing. I know it is the right thing but my heart is crying out don’t but my head says it will be ok go. Please help
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Tue, 09-11-2007 - 4:45pm

How are things going?


I think that when a partner turns to someone of the opposite sex "for advice without prejudice"... that's one pretty lame excuse!


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 10-25-2006
Tue, 09-11-2007 - 5:00pm

Funk,


Don't be so quick to throw in the towel on your marriage.

CL-Wisdomtooth2020