That sneaky S.O.B.
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| Fri, 05-19-2006 - 9:50am |
Okay as you guys know today was to be the day ex and I was to go to ds school to see if there was anything going on with other kids hitting him. We spoke last night and what my sister thought was another bruise surfacing actually wasnt. So I told him no new bruises and since I spoke to them a few days ago they said they would watch out for anything did he think we should still go or wait to see if anything new appears. He said if I think we should wait then fine. So I asked what do YOU think and he says it's up to you. So we agreed to wait. I called the school this morning to speak to his teacher to check on him because he was coughing alot throughout the night and I was a bit worried. Only to find out ds DAD is there talking with the teacher. They asked if I wanted to interrupt them I said no. That sneaky BAS--RD. Why would he go behind my back like that. We agreed that if there were any changes to let each other know.
I have been really good about informing him of anything that goes on with ds, giving him extra time, trying to be accomodating and he pulls this. I called him, got no answer. A little later he called me back so I said what happened? He said what do you mean. I said it again, what happened. He said you called me. I said so when were you gonna tell me you went to the school anyway. He said he was in the neighborhood. So I said why didnt you tell me you were going there? Talking about the judge keeps telling him to visit the school so he figured he would because everytime they ask him he says he hasnt been (big lie) he's been there more than once. So I asked him what happened, he said he didnt talk about the possible issue, he just asked how he was doing. So I asked him why couldnt he tell me he was going and he said tell you for what so I said if that's how you want to be fine and I hung up. Why does everything with him have to be so sneaky. He acts like he doesnt have to share anything with me in regards to our son. Why should I keep going out of my way to keep him informed when he doesnt do the same for me. Does he just have no remote decent feelings or anything at all for me. God, why is he making this so hard. I cant stand him.

Playing Devil's Advocate here but maybe you should just give him the benefit of the doubt. Maybe he was just in the neighborhood and stopped by.
I think it might be good if you sometimes take him at his word instead of getting mad at him. Maybe he was telling the truth?
Edited 5/19/2006 4:47 pm ET by sniffle_sally
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