So Confused

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Registered: 10-16-2006
So Confused
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Mon, 02-25-2008 - 12:44pm

Hi everyone...

I left my husband 2 days ago. I just didn't feel right in the relationship, I think for a long time-but in the last week or so, it became overwhelming, so I just left. He doesn't understand.

The first couple of days it seemed like a weight was lifted. Now the reality of the situation is setting in and I feel so lost. It doesn't feel right to go back-but it doesn't feel right to stay away.

He was always a wonderful and supportive husband for the most part. He is a simple person with simple needs and desires. I am a complicated person who really doesn't even know what I want from life. A big part of me feels like I could never be completely fulfilled with my life if I am in this marriage.

Right now though, I miss the good things so much. I feel alone, and sad, and I miss him. It's so scary to think of starting over now after 9 years. I just feel miserable and confused.

I really want to see a counselor, but I am having trouble finding someone who can see me on my work schedule, which sucks. I really need to talk to someone and get some help to figure all this out.

Thanks all for reading, K

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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: krglvt
Wed, 02-27-2008 - 4:28pm

Hi there... keep looking for a counselor--there has got to be one that will fit your schedule.


It's good that you are looking for a counselor to help sift things out.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~