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|Sun, 03-24-2013 - 3:04pm|
I have been with a past love for three years. We are both divorced. He has three children, I have one. He has custody of his children every weekend and I have full custody of my daughter 7 days a week. The debate comes from my mother.......She feels that he should have his kids every other weekend and that on the weekends he doesn't have them one should be spent with me and my daughter so that she can get used to having him around on the weekends and that the other weekend that he doesn't have his kids my daughter should go stay with her if she doesn't have plans with friends. I feel that i have no right to ask this of him as I have my child full time. If my daughter isn't home I spend time with him and his kids and he spends a few nights a week with me and my daughter. I think if he and I both had a "every other weekend" arrangement with our exes it would be different. My mom is very generous with my daughter and in the past I have had to borrow money from her to stay afloat (I always pay it back)......I tend to rely on my parents for help when I need it. Do I tell her to mind her own business and risk the fallout or is she on to something? Thanks!!!!!!