So he's stopped talking to me...
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| Wed, 04-16-2008 - 10:18pm |
First of all I don't know why I even care...but sadly I do...
I last talked to H yesterday afternoon. He told me he was going by "his place" and he would make it as fast as he could and then he was coming over to "our house". Long story short...he never showed. No call, no text, no nothing. Then all day today nothing...this from the man who YESTERDAY told me he loved me still...UGH!!!!!
I so want to send him a message asking him what is going on. I saw my counselor today and she advised not too. She said I was making myself too available to him and easier for him to continue on as if all is ok. So I haven't and its absolutely killing me.
The kids got to talking tonight too. I am really trying to be strong for them but they are draining me! My son wants hugs all the time (and thats OK!!) my daughter wants to vent about what she "thinks" is going on. She is dead on too but I can't tell her that!!! My son is upset with me for calling his counselor at school and telling her about what is going on. He said he feels better when he can just forget about it. This is a little boy - he shouldn't be put in this situation!! They both know their dad didn't show last night and they tried to stay up tonight to see if he was coming...well its 10pm now and he lives a good ways away...my guess is another no show.

Yeah, my STBX who said "this is awful" (meaning not being able to see his kids) in an email a while ago, hasn't seen then in about 10 days. And when I offered him time with them he was "busy." But an email will show up again saying how awful this whole situation is. Well sorry buddy, I'm not the alcholic with twisted priorities!
Sorry, didn't mean to make this all about me. I'm sending you hugs! For the kids too! Divorce (and stupid men) stinks!
I know the feeling!!
My husband left two months ago (to the day!).