So lost and alone!

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Registered: 04-12-2003
So lost and alone!
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Thu, 12-20-2007 - 12:18am

Well, I have been lurking here for a bit.

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Registered: 12-14-2007
Thu, 12-20-2007 - 4:37pm

don't feel alone! you are not alone!

i hope that you do find comfort here and that we (the supportive people who log into this board everyday) can help you through it!

let us know what you decide to do!

and i'll be praying for you!

-lisa






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life isn't always by the book....
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Fri, 12-21-2007 - 11:11pm

If there's a will, there's a way....


would he consider counseling?


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 12-09-2007
Sun, 12-23-2007 - 1:09am

Hi, same here... I just told my family who live in NC and I On Long Island. DH has allowed me to take our three children to live in NC with my parents for 9 months, to clear our heads. Are we doing the right thing?? who knows.


We have been on the same roller coaster and together for about the same amount of time. I feel for you because I am dying inside and out. My head pounds all day everyday and I cry all the time. Now I have to move back in w/ mom and dad...


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Registered: 04-12-2003
Sun, 01-06-2008 - 10:59am

Update:


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Registered: 12-09-2007
Sun, 01-06-2008 - 11:19am

Hi, well I can feel your pain.... I moved w/ my kids to NC where my family is and he stayed on Long Island. I couldn't be near him so I haven't seen him since Dec 26th. He missed me terribly on New Years and for a couple of days after. He now says he thinks he was just missing the body in bed and things like that but not "me" overall.Which hurts bad. My kids are adjusting well, like you say the night and the morniings are hard for me as well, I cry a lot too.


Yesterday he told me that he a friend of his moved in w/ him so he is occupied, sometimes I wonder if leaving was the best thing or not, but like you I had no one. I relied on him for everything.


Keep in touch...I'll be thinking about you.


-Cindy