so manipulative!
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| Sat, 12-17-2005 - 8:49pm |
last weekend the stbx took the kids to his parents (a 3 hr drive)..I thought this was kinda weird since he was going to see them on the 24th and he doesnt go there without a reason but he can do whatever he wants with them..
today he called the kids at his regular time from his parents number...he usually calls from his cellphone so when I saw the number come up I thought it was his mom (very unusual at that)..so I answered...the kids usually answer when he calls...he just said.."can I speak to the kids"...before I thought about it I said "why are you calling from your parents?"...he just repeated the same thing...then the lightbulb went on ...he had taken his gf there to meet his parents..that is why he went there last weekend..to tell them about her..
I just laughed...he could have called the kids from his cellphone & I wouldnt have talked to him and would have never known that they were there...but he called from his parents so I would know what was going on!...how manipulative!!
to top it off ...he didnt even really talk to the kids...I had happened to look at the clock when the phone rang..so I know he was on the phone with them for 2 mins tops!
it's like he just called to make sure I knew what he was doing...this is after I "accidently" got a phone call from his urologist about his vastectomy reversal...it could be coincidental...but I doubt it!
he is soo manipulative..but what bugs me is it works!!!!
argghhhhhh!!!

thank you for saying so most of the time I don't feel like I'm moving on.
what irks me is he has been doing stuff like that for the last 11mos..and I let it get to me!...I let it ruin my Saturday..but not today!...my kids and I are going to finsh up the Christmas prep and have fun! (did that sound convincing?lol)