So maybe I was wrong
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| Fri, 02-22-2008 - 7:27pm |
So, I have been really okay with my STBX dating his ex-girlfriend from high school for awhile now. I have always said he is happy and that is all that matters. I am happy that we aren't together. I left because we fought all the time and it was best for our daughter. Anytime a voice would raise, our daughter (who will be 3 soon) would cover her eyes and start crying. I knew then that it was time to leave. There was so much anger between my STBX and I that we couldn't get past it and try to at least move on. Well, we haven't even been separated for a year and I recently found out he got engaged. All of sudden I feel like crying. I mean, was our marriage of 3 almost 4 years so awful that about 4 months later he was in love with his ex-girlfriend again, and 7 months after that he is engaged to her. He has had nothing to do with his daughter. For a few months while he was deployed, we would talk on the phone and joke around about having more children and stuff that happened when we first met. It was weird and I decided that it was best if he and I not talk unless it had to do with our daughter. I hate that they are together and I hate that our marriage meant nothing to him. And I hate that our family wasn't enough for him.
Sorry just had to vent and say something. I didn't think that Parenting boards was the place to go for this.

Go ahead and be mad.