So worried,new here,need a friend

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Registered: 03-03-2008
So worried,new here,need a friend
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Mon, 03-03-2008 - 7:22am

Hi everyone,


I went to bed last night promissing myself I would get up today and help me for once. So here I am. I am a soon to be 31 year old mom of two little girls (3 1/2 & 6). My 7th wedding anniversary will be St. Patricks Day and I am in termoial. My husband has decided he no longer loves me. He is not having an affair, not abusive (physically) & comes from a decent family. I thought last fall he was having an early mid-life crisis but now I do not know. We live 600 miles from our familes so we don't have a lot of help. I have tried everything I can do to save us. Including offering counseling, etc. Today I am moving forward to get it for me. I am VERY scared and worried about my girls. They are VERY close to him and need him. Both girls are quite sensitive. I guess I am hoping and praying there is someone out there to talk to or give me some advice. I plan to come here often. Thanks in advance.

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Registered: 03-03-2008
Mon, 03-03-2008 - 11:15am
I can relate. My husband of almost 8 years just let me know that he doesn't love me any more and we are in the beginning stages of a separation. I am still madly in love with him but I know that we can't live this way and I feel it will eventually lead to him cheating if we don't do something. We don't have kids but I know that makes it even more difficult for you. Best wishes in staying strong! I wish I had some good advice for you but I am just starting to deal with this myself.
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Registered: 11-25-2003
Mon, 03-03-2008 - 12:05pm

Hi there ccgirliemom,


Hugs to you on such a day.


I am glad you are getting onto counseling.

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Registered: 02-23-2006
Mon, 03-03-2008 - 12:36pm

I am truly sorry that you are going threw this.