Some good news

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Some good news
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Thu, 06-19-2008 - 1:36pm

The bank called yesterday to say that the appraisal came in on our house and it was high (in fact, if I thought I could get that much now, I might sell it right away

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Tue, 06-24-2008 - 2:52pm

Last night we had a big row because I forgot to put the a/c on in our bedroom until I was going out somewhere in the car and had the a/c on in there.

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Tue, 06-24-2008 - 2:55pm

If he resides in the house after the divorce is final...........he gets credit for 1/2 of the monthly payment.

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Tue, 06-24-2008 - 2:56pm
I can tell you one thing that sucks about the Post Office--after you're divorced, you can't be kept on their health ins. for free, but you can be on it through COBRA.
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Tue, 06-24-2008 - 5:38pm
Hey Musiclover, My H didn't retire from the military, he got out with a severance pay after 15 years active duty, then spent a little over 5 in the Florida National Guard. So hes buying into the Postal Retirement.Thanks for your reply. Everyone has been such big help on here, IM so grateful to be able to come here even if its just to read about everyone elses miserable H's, and to know theres always someone who has it worse than you do. But the support here has been a Godsend! Thanks All! ~Mary~
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Tue, 06-24-2008 - 5:48pm
HI again, The family is on my insurance , we were going to switch to his but never did. Now he will be forced too, once I can drop him from mine. I hope he sweats a little bit on that one....Sorry sounds bad but I feel the need to make him feel some sorta pain in all this, it would never amount to the pain hes caused me or the kids, but I would feel somewhat better knowing life isn't all roses for him either. I know its childish I'm trying to be the better person here, but whats so wrong in wishing some ill will to the two people (Him and Ow) who destroyed my family! Didn't mean to go off on a little tangent. LOL Hope things are better for you...Take Care ~Mary~
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Tue, 06-24-2008 - 7:40pm

The light at the end of the tunnel is getting brighter and brighter...You will soon need to wear SHADES!!!!!

I would start doing searches now..The Boston Globe, The Herald....also check out CityLeases.com

It sounds like stbxH is off of his meds or he is beginning to realize that the marriage is REALLY going to end.

Good Luck tomorrow.

stunned08/Sonya...

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Tue, 06-24-2008 - 10:05pm

"My tooth is sore and now the room won't be cold."

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Wed, 06-25-2008 - 6:44am

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Wed, 06-25-2008 - 12:17pm
Are you from the Boston area also?
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Wed, 06-25-2008 - 12:28pm

Last night I just couldn't stand to even be in the same room as DH.

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